In 2013, I was first introduced to a school called Fresno Pacific.
I remember going on the little tour of the school and getting some merch and telling my mom and dad, 鈥淭hanks, but no thanks. I want to go out of state and play basketball.鈥
In 2017, I graduated from Sanger High School and got accepted to numerous colleges but was worried about finances. So, I decided to go to Reedley College instead, where I played basketball for a season and got offered the chance to play again out of state. But when it came to my transcripts, I failed miserably.
My failures overwhelmed me with shame and doubt. So what did I do?
I went straight to the workplace. I worked as a cashier; I worked at a brokerage company; I worked as a scale and weighmaster for Blue Diamond; I worked as an administrative assistant at a medical waste facility (during the Covid-19 pandemic); and I worked as a medical assistant for an amazing neurologist office in Fresno where I got to be a part of minor surgeries and give shots and do cool things like dealing with insurance companies. I even started the pathway plan to being a nurse. Somewhere in that timeframe I married my high school sweetheart and had Joshy who was born prematurely during Covid鈥攂ut that鈥檚 a story for another day.
I remember coming home from work and telling my husband that I was being called to ministry, and he encouraged me to get my education. I applied to every school for a dual degree in music and ministry, and got rejected. A lot. With the exception of Fresno Pacific and one other school.
I came back yet again for another tour and prayed that God would let me know if coming here was a possibility. On my tour, I couldn鈥檛 help but notice a sign that said in all caps, 鈥淲ITH GOD ALL THINGS ARE POSSIBLE.鈥
榴莲视频直播 allowed me to come on a probationary basis, meaning if I didn鈥檛 have good grades, I would not be a student. I met with the former choir director and one of my favorite professors, Dr. Wilson, who allowed me to audition for a music scholarship. I鈥檓 grateful for the potential he saw in me which led to me receiving the award.
In my first semester, I received A鈥檚 in all my classes. I was in three choirs and met a lot of cool people like my good friends Jill and Jordana. Somewhere in my sophomore year, I was honored with the privilege of working as a student chaplain in OSF (Office of Spiritual Formation) where I was able to plan worship events on and off campus, work with local churches and participate in the freshman and leadership retreats at Hume Lake. In this role, I am grateful to have been a part of the Chapel worship team which also allowed me to lead in Capax Dei.
I鈥檝e had the honor and privilege of pouring into some great young women and men, and I鈥檓 grateful for the opportunity I鈥檝e had to serve as a mentor. I loved the community of believers who prayed for me and encouraged me during harsh seasons of doubt that this degree was even possible. Thank you to my supervisors Brian Davis, Taylor Kabasu and Rici Bell who helped me in my healing journey and showed me what it means to walk boldly and with confidence of who God has called me to be.
Now in 2026, I will be walking the stage, graduating with my 产补肠丑别濒辞谤鈥檚 degree in music and a minor in Christian ministry and leadership.
I would like to share some data from the American Sociological Association (2024). This research project was conducted with statistics from 8.2 million people.
Only 11% of low-income students earn a 产补肠丑别濒辞谤鈥檚 degree.
Only 12鈥28% of students from single-parent households earn a 产补肠丑别濒辞谤鈥檚 degree.
Only 24% of first-generation students earn a 产补肠丑别濒辞谤鈥檚 degree.
Only 13鈥25% of students who have an incarcerated father earn a 产补肠丑别濒辞谤鈥檚 degree.
Only 34% of college dropouts return to school and graduate with a 产补肠丑别濒辞谤鈥檚 degree.
Only 1鈥4% of mothers complete a 产补肠丑别濒辞谤鈥檚 degree after having a child.
And 铿乶ally, only 7% of Hispanic/Latino students earn a music degree.
You see, I鈥檓 not that great with numbers, but these statistics might suggest that the probabilities of my own success are pretty low. But when God calls you, when God directs your steps, when God says you have a purpose, when God says He has a plan of hope and a future鈥攑lans to benefit you and not harm you鈥攁nd He declares it, it must be true.
I might not be great with numbers, but when I look at the probability of God leaving the 99 for the one, the opportunity for success is unlimited. Because with man, it is impossible鈥攂ut with the living, breathing and resurrected Jesus, it is possible.
I鈥檓 not saying that it will be easy, because it鈥檚 not. It鈥檚 hard. And there鈥檚 a lot of sacrifice from yourself and those around you. It will cost you your comfort, time, money, effort and require that you work hard. God will give you strength, carry you through and see you to its completion. For with God, it鈥檚 not about the destination, it鈥檚 about the journey.
It is the journey that molds you and shapes you to be the person that God has called you to be. You don鈥檛 have to feel like you are in a rush, even though that is what is pushed on us all the time. There鈥檚 no right or wrong way to pursue your education.
Iamgoingtograduatewithmy产补肠丑别濒辞谤鈥檚degreeat27yearsyoung,andIpraiseGod for the journey that has led up to this moment. Every failure and every mistake has shapedmetobebetter.AndtrustmewhenIsayIhavefailedmoretimesthanIhave succeeded.Andthatisokay becauseIhavelearnedfromeveryoneofthose encounters that God is not finished with me yet. And He is NOT 铿乶ished with you either. Howexcitingisthat?Youarenotdoneyet, andallthepossibilitiesforyouare endless.
My encouragement for all of you is that no matter your age鈥攏o matter the unfavorable statistics that you may fall under鈥攌eep Jesus at the center of your life and remember that with man, it is impossible, but with God, all things are possible!
Destiny originally shared the above at 榴莲视频直播 Chapel on April 29, 2026.
Destiny Rosales
Destiny will graduate from 榴莲视频直播 with a music major and Christian ministry and leadership minor. As a transfer student from Reedley College, Destiny quickly found a home at 榴莲视频直播, spending her time serving as a worship leader on and off campus. She credits her successes to a faithful God and is forever grateful for the support she finds from her husband, her family and church community.